Hi Besties!

  As promised, here is a small bit from my full episode on Almost Adulting podcast about the Divine Feminine known as your DARK FEMININE ENERGY   What is dark feminine energy you ask?  

The sexy side of you that feels empowered. Everyone is drawn to you without you even trying. Its when you tap into your seductive mysterious and powerful energy. Its for women with high standards and clear boundaries.

 

You’re aware of the power that you hold and you carry yourself with confidence. you’re confident without needing to prove yourself to anyone, you don’t seek attention by being the loudest in the room or not being able to shut the fuck up because it’s your presence alone, your gaze, your demeanour that draws everyone in. And lastly, You see through manipulation and anyone who tries to project their negative energy onto you. You don’t care for it and you don’t allow it. 

 

 

When you turn on this sensual energy, it’s when you’ll notice all the men chase you. Everyone is drawn to you. 

 

I think of jennifer’s body when I’m describing dark feminine energy. I literally rewatch that movie when I try to tap into that energy. It’s the most scoprio energy I’ve ever known.

 

 

Still confused? Let me break it down it for you…

 

Eye contract is your best friend. You don’t need to overshare or explain yourself. You speak unapologetically and know that you deserve to take up space just like anyone else.

 

You don’t apologize for existing, you celebrate it. You set boundaries, trust your intuition, know your worth, say what’s on your mind, let go of anything or anyone that no longer serves you, and walk with confidence because you are that bitch.

 

You fall in love with your shadows and prioritize yourself. You feel powerful and worthy of your desires. You practice self love which includes self pleasure. I would say through self pleasure is how you can mostly manifest things when you’re in this energy.

 

 

Some songs that can help you tap into this energy are:

 

Maneater by Nelly Furtado, you should see me a crows by billie eilish, anything by doja cat, Good puss by cobrah, Me too by Meghan Trainor, fools by foster, Mount Everest by Labrinth, and so on. 

  Hope that helps besties!!! To learn more about this or your soft feminine energy and everything else about dating, life, and mental health, make sure you subscribe to my podcast Almost Adulting! New episodes every Tuesday and Thursday.   xoxo your bestie, Violetta Benson